So, Maxie Boy and I like to walk in the morning. Oh does he like to walk.
Since I walk the neighborhood in the early morning we tend to encounter people leaving for work or school. We always wave. Well, I wave because Max doesn't have opposable thumbs and so waving is difficult for him. He is bitter about that but we are working through it.
And when I was waving at people as they drove by it got me to thinking about all the different kinds of waves we employ and what they might mean. Yeah, I have way too much thinking time on my hands I know, but work with me people!
So, the first wave that I employ is the "Hey good neighbor" wave. It isn't exuberant, it is just hey how ya doin'. The arm extends up, elbow at 90 degree angle, and the hand at shoulder height. And then you give one toggle of the hand, back and forth, at the wrist.

Then there is the "hip wave". You know the one. You are striding along, you want to wave but you really don't know the person all that well, not well enough to give them the "Hey howya doin'" wave. Hand goes up to hip level, index finger extended, toggle to the right and left and you are done. The variation on this is raising the hand up to the face level, sort of like you are saluting them....but not. Now if you are extending another finger and waving that one it sends an entirely different message. One that we won't be discussing here.
Then there is the head bob "wave" or acknowledgement. I employ that for the motorcyclists that I encounter. I don't want them taking their hands off the handlebars. Nod head in hello, they are on their way. Everyone's day is fine and dandy.
But then there is the full out, full on, hey I know you and I like you wave. That wave I reserve for my friend Jenna, who is the daughter of my friend Lauren (Lookleap) who does not yet blog but should. Can the neighborhood stand two bloggers who live 300 feet from each other? Only time will tell.
At any rate, I reserve my full arm extension, hand toggling back and forth madly, big smile wave for Jenna. Cuz she waves at me that way too. It makes my day.
I like walking in the morning because at some point the sun will be at my back and I will actually look tall. It is all in the perception, People. All in the perception.
I just read Jenna what you wrote. Got the reaction I expected. (Total glee.) She just told me yesterday how she's going to miss you when you move.
ReplyDeleteI read the entire paragraph, so now she's bugging me to blog too. (Thanks a LOT.) I actually started to -- on my family web site -- but didn't make it past two postings. Oh well. I tried.
By the way, the neighborhood picnic's on for this year! I JUST talked to Charlie yesterday. It'll be mid to late Oct. though. Perhaps a clam bake?
Love your observations on the human wave. It's so true. I do this with my smile. When I'm out running and I see another runner, I give one little upturn of the right side of my mouth (because this running stuff is serious business and there's no foolin' around) but if I see a neighbor on my run, well then they get a small smile using both sides of my mouth. But if I see a neighbor I really like, they get to see teeth.
ReplyDeleteA friend? They get an actual word and a hug.
he he he
Elle